Date Your Wedding Vendors

Your wedding day is an investment in a meaningful moment, in heartfelt memories, in deep connection among loved ones! Whether you’re eloping or having a luxury wedding, this is a momentous day so you’ll want to make sure you hire a team you trust. It should go without saying, but it’s incredibly important to vibe with the wedding vendors you hire. Especially the ones who are present on your wedding day, the ones who set the tone!

You want to make sure you like the people you hire, right? It’s your money after all so you’ll want to support small businesses that align with YOU - your values, personalities, sense of humor and maybe even your journey. You want a team of vendors that will bring it like they would for a dear friend. Especially with vendors like wedding planners who are there with you through the thick of executing your vision, photographers who will document this special day full of vulnerable moments, AND wedding officiants, who get to know you intimately to deliver one helluva wedding ceremony. Each of us in our own way are kinda like therapists but not quite. We are not licensed. Just non-judgmental romantics with lots of monogamous, marital experience so we get it when you share the realities of your relationship.

When couples reach out to us and aren’t totally sure if we’re the right wedding officiants, we recommend dating around before swiping right! Trust is key in all of your vendor hires.

Part of that trust is THE VIBES! That somethin’ somethin’ you can’t quite put your finger on but know that they get you. There’s so many wonderful & affordable wedding officiants that we recommend to couples when we’re not available so we know that if we’re not your cuppa tea, another love storytelling officiant will be.

Just as y’all want a wedding vendor that is excited to work with you and bring your vision to life, we want the partnerships we are hired to celebrate to be excited about the magical collaboration we’re about to embark on! This is our craft, our art, our livelihood and we love that mutual adoration, mutual respect, mutual gratitude for sharing time and space together.

Once Upon a Vow provides wedding license services in Boston and New York City, handling all legal and love storyteller aspects of your big day. We encourage couples to carefully choose and love their wedding vendors to create the perfect team for their dream wedding.